There's no right way to grieve

Grief comes in waves, and it doesn't follow a timetable.

Hannah Reyes

After a loss, people often worry they're grieving the wrong way: too much, too little, too soon or too late.

Grief rarely moves in neat stages. It can feel calm for weeks and then overwhelming because of a song, a smell or an ordinary Tuesday.

Be patient with yourself. Keep simple routines, let people help in small ways and make space to remember the person you've lost.

Talking with a therapist can give your grief somewhere to go, especially if it's affecting your sleep, work or relationships.

Taking the first step is often the hardest part.

Book a free 15-minute call. We’ll listen, answer your questions and help you decide if we’re the right fit.

No commitment, no forms to fill in first.

Fernley

A small counseling practice in Portland, Oregon. In person and online across Oregon and Washington.

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